All men want to understand what women want, right? That’s the joke of the last 100 years in this society. Many feminine books have been written on the topic, including horrid bullshit like “Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus”. They even got Mel Gibson to do a suicide-inducing Rom-Com in 2000 called “What Women Want”.
The fact is that women aren’t all that complicated. It is the Feminine Imperative the pushes the mystique of women, and every woman is in on the cover up. As long as men are confused about what women want, they are easily manipulated and controlled. It is clearly intentional that there is no reliable scientific field of study that clearly outlines what female humans want in male humans. Scientists across the world research and publish articles on the detailed sexual behavior of many other animals species, but nothing legitimate and objective can be found on female human sexual behavior unless you dig into the Manosphere.
This is partially because women often have no fucking clue what they want. And they have a mechanism for extreme self-deception and self-obfuscation that blocks their conscious forebrain and subconscious hindbrain from ever coming to an agreement on what the fuck they really want. When you mix that with women’s intentional blindness, revisionism, and dishonesty about their own behavior and what they want, you get some very unreliable test subjects to learn from.
Evolution Has Made Women Deceptive
In the sphere of sexuality, women simply do not operate in a straightforward and honest way. Everything they do in this sphere is covert and subversive, and for good evolutionary reason. To find the best Alpha-Dominant-High Value (“ADH”) seed, women have to communicate covertly and run tests on men. Evolution has factored in the reality that men will do and say ANYTHING to get pussy, and the straightforward women that were fooled into carrying the children of weak Beta-Lower Value males with inferior seed had their DNA extinguished. The women that ran a complex array of conscious and subconscious covert tests on the men, designed to reveal the true utility the men presented, fared much better in the DNA sweepstakes of evolution. Thus, women now come hardwired from the factory with many covert, dishonest, and subconscious ways to test men. This is partially why women are naturally more skilled at manipulation, and why they excel at conquering without direct physical confrontation.
Women often get upset when you call them dishonest. But, there is no other word to describe their behavior. If they tested men in a “honest” way, that would undermine the effectiveness and utility of their tests. A test subject that knows how and why they are being tested, and what they are being tested for, can figure out how to game the system and cheat on the test. If the test is to determine whether a woman is going to have sex with a man, we all know that men will cheat on that test if they are able. A test subject that knows nothing about the test, or even the fact they are being tested, will always give more authentic results.
Keep in mind that I am not justifying women’s dishonesty, I just simply understand and accept it as an unchangeable reality. I don’t “blame” women for my own problems and the problems of other men. That is juvenile and unproductive. The only productive thing to do is accept and understand their sexual nature and how to take advantage of it. Women have mastered the art of taking advantage of men through their sexual weaknesses. It’s time that men do the same.
As I wrote this, I had an epiphany that the Manosphere is really a collection of information men share to cheat on women’s tests. It is a large cheat sheet for vagina. That is profound. But let’s get back to the article…
Women’s natural talent of deception, and their willingness to deceive, allows them to get more accurate test results from men. In the DNA sweepstakes of evolution, women do not play by any rules, and morality has no bearing on their behavior, as the stakes were always too high. Now, the world is overpopulated with humans, and we have many forms of government welfare and child support laws that ensure a woman and her children will not starve and die. However, in our Ancestral Environment, a woman’s poor choice in mates meant death to her and her children, and maybe even death to the entire tribe. Evolution designed us for the Ancestral Environment, not the modern environment, so women’s dishonest behavior today makes perfect sense.
Also factor in that women, just like men, naturally want dominance in every sphere of their life (except the bedroom). However, Homo Sapiens is a sexually dimorphic species, meaning that men are bigger, stronger, and more athletic than women. Since women could not achieve domination through their physicality, evolution favored the women that could dominate men through their cunning, manipulation, and deception. Women that could manipulate the sperm out of the Alphas, and the support they needed from of the Betas, would always pass on their DNA and manipulative genes over the non-manipulative women that could not compete.
The Verbal Unreliability Principle
You cannot ask a woman what she wants from men and ever get an accurate answer. Let me repeat that, YOU CANNOT ASK A WOMAN WHAT SHE WANTS FROM MEN AND EVER GET A RELIABLE ANSWER. This is what I call the “Verbal Unreliability Principle” with women.
Women themselves do not understand the way they test men subconsciously. It’s based on a feeling of attraction they have that either increases or dissipates based on the man’s behavior and the context. They have no subconscious control or decision-making when it comes to their emotional attraction to or repulsion from men. It’s just something they “feel”.
Even further, the workings of her own subconscious attraction mechanism are usually muddled and hidden from her own view by her ego that operates an elaborate self-deception mechanism.
Here is a quick rundown of Sigmund Freud’s psychoanalytic theory: The “Id” is the primitive and instinctual part of the mind that contains sexual and aggressive drives and hidden memories, the “Super-Ego” operates as a moral conscience, and the “Ego” is the realistic part that mediates between the desires of the id and the super-ego.
Her super-ego is informed by her conscious mind and the societal programming that tells her she wants a “nice man”. When she fucks the hot guy at the foam cannon party on Spring Break just half an hour after meeting him, her ego starts working in overtime to rationalize her own behavior. She didn’t fuck him during the foam cannon party because the man was Alpha-Dominant-High Value, she fucked him because “he was cute, I was drunk, and one think led to another…” It’s the same self-deception mechanism a married woman uses to rationalize away her cheating with the Alphas during her bachelorette party or on the “girls vacation”.
Men don’t have this same level of self-deceptive ego rationalization in their minds. Men that cheat know they cheated, and they just lie about it. Women don’t just lie about cheating, they deceive themselves and others into believing it was not actually cheating. This is also why you need a permanent audio recorder going at all times if you like to engage in arguments with women (not recommended). Having a permanent audio record for reference is the only way you can hold them to the words that come out of their mouth. Every man knows that what a woman said in the past is always subject to change based on how well the words serve her current agenda. If the words don’t serve her current agenda, she never said the words in the past or she said something different than what she actually said.
Arguing with women is enough to drive you insane, and it’s also a waste of time, which is why I don’t recommend it.